I like to meet and have fun with people of all different ages, genders, abilities, bodies, cultures, and backgrounds. I’m open-minded, curious, and compassionate and I work to dismantle my biases.

The only thing I absolutely require is respectful, clear, professional communication when you contact me and we’re arranging a date. Are you new to this or unsure what that looks like? I recommend perusing the Good Client Guide.

I do not have a set schedule. At least one day before you want to meet, contact me with your preferred date, time, and length of date. I have a full and busy life, so the farther in advance you contact me, the more likely it is that we will be able to meet. Sometimes I post about my availability on X

If you’re unsure, it’s best to book a longer date so you know you’ll have time to do everything you want and not feel rushed. I personally prefer and prioritize longer dates so that we have plenty of time to relax, connect, and explore endless pleasures. I prefer quality over quantity.

Gluten-free snacks and drinks are always appreciated! Some of my favorites are seasonal fruit, nuts, cheese, GF baked goods, chocolate, smoked fish, and ice cream.

I don't drink much alcohol but sometimes enjoy a cocktail, cider, or glass of dry white wine. Ginger beer and juice are great non-alcoholic options. Or a cappuccino in the morning!

I will bring a variety of condoms and lube, but if you have a favorite you can bring it. Or bring toys and implements you want to use.

How delightful! Here are some ideas.

• Share a meal at your favorite restaurant. I love to try new foods and I eat everything except gluten.

• Watch an indie or international film (or a horror movie!)

• Visit a bookstore, library, museum, or art gallery together

• Ice skating!

• Read stories out loud to each other

• Have a picnic or ice cream in the park

• Meet for coffee and a delicious GF pastries

• Go for a bike ride or walk

• Go out dancing or see live music

• Take a workshop together or attend a presentation or lecture, especially on a sexy topic where we can practice together later

• Invite me to your hotel for a swim or soak in the jacuzzi

• Overnight or weekend getaway to a cabin by a lake or the ocean

  
  

Do your research! Legit providers will maintain a website, social media presence, and ads on reputable sites with thorough verification processes like Tryst.

If I didn’t respond to your message it’s probably for one of the following reasons:

1. Your message said “Hi” or “Are you available?” and did not give me any of the information I need. Send me another message that includes your name, tells me a bit about yourself, and explains what you’re looking for. Or better yet, fill out my booking form.

2. You contacted me before and disappeared during the booking process or otherwise did not show respect for me and my time. If you apologize, explain what happened, and pay any applicable cancellation fees or offer me a gift for my time, I may give you another chance.

No, I only offer in-person services. I like to connect with people in real life. However, I do offer texting packages if you want to get to know each other before meeting in real life.